Some call me Nicola, others Nicky or Nic or even Tommy’s Mum…I answer to all of them.
I wanted to get it right
I wanted to be good enough
I wanted to be seen and heard.
For decades, I have searched for a formula, a way, a plan, and followed others.
Over these decades, I have found or more correctly,
I have remembered my way.
I found self-safety, self-compassion, self-love, and self-acceptance.
I unlearned patterns, habits and conditioning, creating new ones.
My past served me, BUT it no longer does.
I have uncovered the diamond beneath my lived life experiences.
I listened, I softened,
I was kind to myself,
cleared the noise in my mind to hear the whispers of not only my soul but Tommy’s…more about Tommy later.
I remembered my way.
I remembered my way to joy, acceptance and to my soul, thriving in the life I have chosen. I am still a work in progress, so I continue to learn and grow with the support of mentors, music, my own musings and feeling my e – motions.
Gratitude to everyone who has supported me over my life…some in a professional way, others by being my friend or not, I thank you.
The biggest thanks go to my partner in life, David and my children, Tommy, Alicia, Siân and Greg. Thank you for being you.
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TOMMY & NICOLA
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